OK, so my co-worker is 23. She's cute as a button, vivacious, smart, driven and dating a former coworker. I, on the other hand, am dating no one. There is no one hiding in the shadows with a secret crush on me. How do I know this you ask? I just do. Life does not work that way for me. I am fun, funny and everyone likes me, but there are no hidden crushes and it makes me sad. So there.